The person who enters in to a marriage needs not only physical maturity but also psychological maturity. Psychological maturity in the context of marriage includes the ability to look at life realistically, active concern for the well being of partner, ability and willingness to share and make a compromise and ability to face problems and seek solution. Rishtey banao identified the characteristics that appear in healthy marriages:Adaptability and flexibility (the ability and willingness of a person to adjust to change, to accept differences in a partner, and to adapt if necessary).
Empathy (a sensitivity to the hurts and needs of others and a willing attempt to see and experience the world from the other person's perspective).
Togetherness in sharing. Time spending together, mutual spiritual interest, negotiation ability, maturity, play and humour, intimacy (including expression of appreciation and the sharing of inner thoughts and feeling) and willingness to make commitment. When these characteristics are present before marriage it seems likely that there will be wiser mate selection and marital satisfaction.
Ability to work through problems (the recognition of emotions and a willingness to define the issues and work towards solution).
Ability to give and receive love
Emotional stability (accepting one's emotions, controlling them and expressing them without tearing down another person).
Communication ability (learning to talk frequently to one another about a wide range subjects, to convey the feeling that one understands and is sensitive to the other, to keep communication opportunities open, and to express oneself personally, clearly and at times nonverbally).
Commitment (the willingness to yield oneself to a lifetime of adventure including the risks, joys and sorrows, plus a commitment to work together even when difficulties, obstacles, and challenges interfere with a smooth relationship).
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